Saturday, June 10, 2006

Just a Rant

Sometimes I feel like banging my head against the wall. Talking to some people is like talking through a one way door. Only the things they tell you seem to come across. And when you try to tell them something it bounces back. Except when you speak their way (read as walking backwards. Like moon walking or something!).
I hate when people think what they do and what they say is right. They are so stuck in their own shit that they just cannot put themselves into other people’s shoes. And even if they do, they bring their foul excreta with them. They are just sick sick sick!
I also hate interfering in other people’s messes. It gets really stinky most of the time.(Forgive me for the malodorous metaphor.)

PS- To all those lesser mortals who don’t know this fact, I have put it up in bold red.

WHEN TWO PEOPLE BREAK UP, SO DO THEIR FRIENDS AND FAMILY. AND THERE IS ALMOST NO EXCEPTION UNLESS THEY WERE ALREADY FRIENDS OR FAMILY EVEN BEFORE THE TWO PEOPLE GOT TOGETHER.

I know this is entirely unrelated. But of late I have come across no less than three failed relationships in which the one or both of the two souls or their friends and family trespassed this golden rule. (And one relationship in which even formerly friendly families became less friendly and more than just a lil cold to each other.) The result has always been a sticky situation including delicate conversations, hurt feelings and lots of melodrama.

I have stayed away from interfering in anything for two whole years. And now I find my fate almost inescapable.
*walks slowly away with head down, thinking…*
To meddle or not to meddle…

4 comments:

Venkat C said...

Yes, too right!!

Anna said...

I like how you have arranged your links...you are more artistic than I! As to the first part of your post, I know what you mean. They're usually terrible listeners to start with, and you never know if they think they are smarter than you so that you don't notice them not listening, or if they just don't care. They only "listen" if you are repeating what they want to hear back to them. "Intransigent" usually goes along with it. Rar! So aggravating!

Susmita said...
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Da Rodent said...

hmm...............